common sense...

common sense is something we should have but many people lack. For example, my sister lacks a lot of common sense she can easily be brain dead with the simplest and obvious things in life. She could do some of the most complex when it comes to school and work and she will think its simple but when it comes to mixing everyday life and common sense she gets lost in life. Some of the things she has done just to give you guys an example are... if the front gate is open and u are letting the dogs out when kids are coming it only makes sense to close the gate so the dogs do not get out to chase the kids and wait until the kids leave (not going to lie it was funny watching the kids trying to outrun my dogs), or turning off the fan when u are freezing,  always sticking your hand in the oven without any protection and going to the doctor if your in a lot of pain. Although, what may be common sense to some people is not common to others. Like it is common sense for a baker to crumb coat a cake before actually starting to ice and decorate the cake to avoid crumbs falling everywhere while someone who rarely or has never baked before might not even think about doing that.  Well by now you all have figured out I'm just trying to get this done before I leave  my house so I am not sure what i wrote but I am guessing its just about the right amount of words.

attitude...it doesnt really mater anyways.

How we wake in the morning in a way determines how our attitude will be throughout the day at least in my case. Usually if I wake up to someone or something making noise I tend to be mean throughout the day, and when I wake up earlier than usual and by my own will I tend to be happier and cheerful. I don't know if it happens to anybody else but it happens to me. But I guess my overall attitude is laid back and uncaring, I just go with the beat of the drum and not with the rest. Most people that know me think I don't care about them or care about anything because they say that is the attitude I give. Don't get me wrong yeah I might not care as much as they do but it doesn't mean I don't care at all its just my attitude on the outside does not perfectly match with my attitude on the inside.  

I don’t know why attitude is important or why we need to make a “great first impression”. The way we show our attitude (and everything else) to others make them want to judge each other, I don’t know why but they still judge a book by its cover.  Many people think my attitude is dark, solitary, non-caring and mean just because I would rather be in my house or away from the city and rather be up at night by myself than during the day. It’s not that I am anti-social I like being with people and talking but I’d rather be alone and actually focus on what important not just being with people that judge everyone and everything. I guess society and me are completely different.

honestly everybody lies...

"Honestly is the best policy" but that doesn't mean you have to be honest. Don't get me wrong being honest is very important to me but i am just being realistic every now and then people tell a lie. People who say they do not lie can either be lying or telling the truth, but how many people are going to believe they are telling the truth? And honestly i must say sometimes telling the truth can be more hurtful than telling a lie but its ones choice to lie or tell the truth. I would love to live a life where no one would lie but lets face the facts that the chances of that ever happening are slim. 
 People need to know that lying will get them nowhere in life and yet they still choose to go ahead and lie. I'm and tired of people telling lies just to make themselves look better if people lie id rather it be for something that can protect someones life. I'm not sure if half of you who are reading this actually understand what I'm trying to say,i know what I'm trying to say but I'm not sure how to write it down. The only time i lie is when i know the person i am lying to cannot handle the truth no matter how pain full it may be.

plan ahead or else your dead.....

Life is always unpredictable and sometimes you just have to go with the flow but other times its better to just plan ahead. Somethings in life need to be planned like a birthday party or an essay. Working with my parents in their party business really shows how much a party needs to be planned. Everything needs to be in perfect organization or else a party can flop to disaster. Planning is just a map organizing what you have to do or what you want to do in a period of time.

I for one try not to plan as much as i can. Planning to me can get pretty stressful because i become such a perfectionist when it to planning events and calendars. Working in a place where people pay you to make their party "perfect", we need to make sure we plan everything perfectly detailed and everything HAS to go according to plan. My mom always put me to make the plans which i like because i am the head of the "operation" in a way, but i also hate it because i never feel we are on time, one minute off of the plan makes me really stressful and makes me freak out.

I love living my life spontaneously it keep excitement and curiosity around every corner. Living life without any plans is much less stressful but sometimes we really can't avoid having to plan thing.

goals

I'm not sure what to say so ill just wing it. Goals in life can range from learning how to tie a knot or finishing a marathon. My goals right now are not set for the near future. My goal right now is to not slack off  on my first semester of college. so far i guess i am doing okay because i have not missed any assignments for any of my classes and all my quizzes or test have been an 85% or better so i hope to keep it that way. i think goals should be taken one step at a time. For example many people who are on a diet before they start say i want to lose about 35 pounds but i think they should take it 5 pounds at a time once they lose 5lbs move on to the next 5 and before they know it they have lost the 35 pounds without realizing it, but that is just my opinion. My life time goal is to become a nurse at Pomona hospital because that is were me and my sisters where all born and that is where they saved me and my mother from nearly dying, So i feel like i owe so much to the hospital. the longest goal i have ever had that i have not accomplished is to find my favorite children's book "The Boxcar Children". I read it when i was in 3rd grade and then its like the book vanished i have never been able to find it yet...

Hard Work... is not for me well maybe.

So we are suppose to write two hundred words on hard work? Are you kidding me i can tell this is going to be a lot of hard work for me. hey look that's about 38 words right about now. Only 162 words left, well here goes nothing. Well, i guess hard work can be determined in many different ways but in the end i guess its about how much effort one puts into whatever ones doing and how much determination one puts as well. For example, I'm not putting a lot of effort into this blog because its not really interesting to me put I'm determined to finish this post so to me in a way is a little hard work. So as of now, i mean when i finish this sentence, i will have done about 149 words so lets keep going cause i only need around 51 more words . 

So lets see what else to say oh yeah, hard work runs in my family there is not one person who is not a hard worker except for me of course. I mean, I am but only when motivated and or excited and I guess I'm not easily excited as you can tell by my wonderful blog setup thing. Wow reading that makes me sound like a depressing person, but i promise I'm not...that much. Just Kidding. So i guess in to wrap this up here are my two ideas of hard work: 1) to me hard work means doing something with determination and without the taught of giving up 2) I'm only a hard worker when I'm motivated or excited.

-The end :D 

once a upon a time, there was me and well, it still hasn't change. :D

Well i guess i should tell you a little bit about myself. My name is Jaritza Mendoza and I am 18, because its hard for some people most call me Jar-Jar, Ritz, or Yari. I am usually quiet not because I'm shy (but i am just a little) but because i am more of a listener and observer but get me talking and you will wish i would go back to being quiet.  My family came from Honduras which is located in Central America but me and my sisters were all born in Pomona,CA. Even thought we live in the U.S we are very attached to out Hispanic side. I love to listen to ALL types of music I'll listen to anything.  I am the middle of three girls (Alex, 20 and Kenia, 13) and i have four dogs Scout, Fatso, Hidden, and Nida and they are half beagle and half Chihuahua except Scout who is a beagle.

My family and I are very Disney people we love anything that has to do with Disney, because its the only time we come together as a real family. I have to say my favorite thing at Disney is World Of Colors because everything captures your memories, imagination, and your emotions.

I have a deep passion for animals even if they kinda look scary or weird I love learning about them and caring for them. I can easily say i love watching the history channel especially American Pickers, i love to learn about the past because the past can never be replaced and without it we wouldn't have  future. I love to go on adventures and ill try anything new. I think the most important thing people should know about me and they usually do find out after meeting me is that I'm a "yin" type of person i love the nighttime when everything is at its clearest I like to take my time and agree with my emotions and i kind of go with the flow of life. When I am in my deepest taught you will usually find me writing in my poetry book or writing saying on my notepad. I am very yin-yang when it comes to poetry but most people don't even know i write poetry not many people are allowed to read them.

wanna know anything just let me know : D <3