honestly everybody lies...

"Honestly is the best policy" but that doesn't mean you have to be honest. Don't get me wrong being honest is very important to me but i am just being realistic every now and then people tell a lie. People who say they do not lie can either be lying or telling the truth, but how many people are going to believe they are telling the truth? And honestly i must say sometimes telling the truth can be more hurtful than telling a lie but its ones choice to lie or tell the truth. I would love to live a life where no one would lie but lets face the facts that the chances of that ever happening are slim. 
 People need to know that lying will get them nowhere in life and yet they still choose to go ahead and lie. I'm and tired of people telling lies just to make themselves look better if people lie id rather it be for something that can protect someones life. I'm not sure if half of you who are reading this actually understand what I'm trying to say,i know what I'm trying to say but I'm not sure how to write it down. The only time i lie is when i know the person i am lying to cannot handle the truth no matter how pain full it may be.

plan ahead or else your dead.....

Life is always unpredictable and sometimes you just have to go with the flow but other times its better to just plan ahead. Somethings in life need to be planned like a birthday party or an essay. Working with my parents in their party business really shows how much a party needs to be planned. Everything needs to be in perfect organization or else a party can flop to disaster. Planning is just a map organizing what you have to do or what you want to do in a period of time.

I for one try not to plan as much as i can. Planning to me can get pretty stressful because i become such a perfectionist when it to planning events and calendars. Working in a place where people pay you to make their party "perfect", we need to make sure we plan everything perfectly detailed and everything HAS to go according to plan. My mom always put me to make the plans which i like because i am the head of the "operation" in a way, but i also hate it because i never feel we are on time, one minute off of the plan makes me really stressful and makes me freak out.

I love living my life spontaneously it keep excitement and curiosity around every corner. Living life without any plans is much less stressful but sometimes we really can't avoid having to plan thing.

goals

I'm not sure what to say so ill just wing it. Goals in life can range from learning how to tie a knot or finishing a marathon. My goals right now are not set for the near future. My goal right now is to not slack off  on my first semester of college. so far i guess i am doing okay because i have not missed any assignments for any of my classes and all my quizzes or test have been an 85% or better so i hope to keep it that way. i think goals should be taken one step at a time. For example many people who are on a diet before they start say i want to lose about 35 pounds but i think they should take it 5 pounds at a time once they lose 5lbs move on to the next 5 and before they know it they have lost the 35 pounds without realizing it, but that is just my opinion. My life time goal is to become a nurse at Pomona hospital because that is were me and my sisters where all born and that is where they saved me and my mother from nearly dying, So i feel like i owe so much to the hospital. the longest goal i have ever had that i have not accomplished is to find my favorite children's book "The Boxcar Children". I read it when i was in 3rd grade and then its like the book vanished i have never been able to find it yet...